Assume they’re here because, in spirit, they are. Talk to them, because they want your love and attention. Roll Call Continued—Letters O through R

Dan with Endre

A friend reacted in response to something I had written on Facebook regarding the children-in-spirit. Danny has expressed, through our new EVP connection, that he misses me and his home. He still refers to our home as his home, and although he is not unhappy, he was when he first arrived there, and to this day, wants our attention.

In response, one of the moms expressed being saddened by this because she thought her son was happy absolutely, all the time and while I would love to believe that as well, these kids of ours are human. They are most definitely out of their bodies, but they are not beyond all emotion, and human emotion is like the weather: one minute sunny and bright and another, stormy with rain. Is the human condition ever in a state of constant happiness?

I am taking my lead from Dan who tells me that he misses me and loves me and wishes he could spend more time with me, which is precisely why I think EVP and ITC are coming out of the closet as viable ways that we can use to connect and converse with our loved ones.

Some of us are starting the process now, so will join later. I do feel that in time, many of you will follow suit. But, it doesn’t matter how you communicate with your child, only that you do!  Talk to him or her and send your love outward, everyday. When you wake up in the morning you say “Good morning _______.” When you go to bed at night you say, “Goodnight sweetheart, I love you.” And you keep it going throughout the day.

Now, the “hearing back” part is a matter of trust. I see now that Danny was, in fact, coming through to me all along, but it was hard for me to trust it. My logical reasoning mind wants logical answers that I can verify, but nothing about spirit and the way they can interact with us, comes through that logical part of us, but through the feeling part. I’ve had numerous mediums say to me, “I don’t so much hear it as I feel it.”

If you feel a rush of deep love for your child-in-spirit, he or she is probably sending out love to you. If you are overwhelmed by a memory, your child probably influenced you to think about it. We are whispered to and guided by their influencing and most of the time, we don’t have a clue that it’s happening. So, what can you do? Go with your gut. One of my teachers, Seth, used to say: “Trust those little, everyday, innocuous impulses, for your gut feeling is a God in you laughing.”

Okay, on with the roll call:







Patti Ann (I’m Patti Ann)





Polar Bear


Presley (I’m Presley)








Rodney (This is Rodney)




Roseanna (It’s Roseanna)










About sheriperl

I am a spiritual healer, a writer, a teacher, a potter and a wife and mother. My work has always been in spiritual healing but since 2008 I have focused more on bereavement as I lost my 22 year old son Daniel to an overdose on July 1, 2008.
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