Names and More names—The kids Continue to Make Their Presence Known—The Want Us to Heal—The Continuation of “Roll Call”—Letters L M + N

When Danny first passed we were so forlorn. We didn’t know that what was lost would be found and our grief was beyond reason. We were up at the grave, that first Halloween after he had passed that summer in July and as you can see, we both look pretty grief-stricken. All of a sudden, I hear in my head, “If you two want to stand around here crying over this little piece of land, go right ahead, but I’m getting out of here. I’m getting in the car, and by the way, I’m riding shotgun.” Well, that last part really caught my attention because when the kids were young, they often argue over the front seat, and so I told Jerry that Danny wanted us to leave, and we did.

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Today, it’s a very different story. That’s me at Danny’s grave two days ago on Monday the 11th. My heart has healed greatly because I realize that although I can’t see, feel or hug my boy, that he is none-the-less with me. I lost him in the flesh but I’ve found him in the spirit and it’s him with all the unique aspects of his personality, that which made him uniquely him.

S at D's grave 7:2016

Each of us can have this kind of relationship because our children want it too. They will do what they can, but we must stay open. Whether it’s through signs, feelings, dreams, readings, EVPs or synchronicity, keep an open mind. I have come to see that so much more is possible than I ever thought possible. Truly, I’m amazed.

Ladd

Laura

Lauren

I’m Laurie

Leah

Lee

Lee Ann

Lenny

Leona

I’m Leonard

Lia

Libby

Liam

Libby (I’m Libby)

Lila

Lili

Liliana

Linda

Lindsay

Lionel

Lisa

Lonny

Loretta

Lorna

It’s Lydia

Madeline

Maha

Malcom

Malia

Mallory (I’m Mallory)

Manu

Margie

Maria

Mariana

Marie

Mariority

Marissa

Marla

Marlene (Marlene’s here)

Mary Ann

Marsha

Marshall

Marta

Matthew

May

Maynard

Melanie

Mercede

Merry

Mia

Michael

Michaela

Milly

Milo

Mithell

Monika

Monroe

Murray

Mussolini

Myra

Nadia

Naomi

Nat

Natalie

Nathan

Ned (I’m Ned)

Neil

Nicola

Nicholi

Nick

Nicky

Noah

Noel

Nona

Nora

Norm

It’s Norma

I’m Norman

About sheriperl

I am a spiritual healer, a writer, a teacher, a potter and a wife and mother. My work has always been in spiritual healing but since 2008 I have focused more on bereavement as I lost my 22 year old son Daniel to an overdose on July 1, 2008.
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